A Trusting Bond

“It’s important that mentors take the relationship slow because the healthy bond is only formed over time when the mentor displays consistency and stability. Affection and shared experiences are also important, but those things alone don’t form the kind of trusting bond that children need to develop most effectively.”  - Elizabeth HigleySuch is the case with our Great Life Mentoring match, Sarah and Sophia.Can you imagine experiencing hurt, trauma and the loss of your most significant loved ones all at an early age in life? Sophia has been hit with all of this and more. Our sweet girl deals with complex mental health issues, a challenging home-life and struggles with having her voice heard.Sophia was thankful to receive a Great Life mentor whom she has bonded with over weekly get- togethers. From forest hikes to quiet cafes, mentor Sarah has been there faithfully for her friend Sophia. Their friendship is going well-beyond the initial year-long commitment and this is making all the difference.After a good long time of getting to know each other, Sophia felt brave and comfortable sharing her personal story with her mentor. Sarah doesn’t seek to draw out this information but she has proven worthy of her friend’s trust. Sarah is an empathetic listener so it was natural and safe for her friend to share openly. It was a healing opportunity for Sophia to be heard and validated.We have learned that Sophia functions at a higher level when she is around her mentor. This practice is good for Sophia, her development and her future. She is on her way to her own great life with her mentor listening gently by her side. 

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